Only people who are doing something that goes against their own sense of right and wrong have to spend time and energy spinning out a self-justifying story.” ~ From Bonds That Make Us Free by C. Terry Warner

Now that the BWP Community is into creating and living out new stories, one of the first steps is to ask yourself, “Who am I?” Your new story should come from your core essence, your true self, the person you were before you bought into all the lies that formed your beliefs.

When you tap into your core essence, it is easy to create that new story – it is simply the real you. You won’t have to spend time spinning new stories to justify your false story when you live from your core essence. The true you, the authentic you will shine.

Just for today, STOP, TAKE A BREATH, and ASK:
“Who am I?”

Create a story from the answer you receive.
Coach Carolyn

At our BWP Meetup this past weekend, we worked on creating new and empowering stories; agreeing to thank our old stories for the lesson, blessings, and testings and then letting them go. It is difficult to give up our old stories just like it is difficult to let go of those old beliefs and thoughts.

In order to create a new life, you must create a new story because what you agree to, comes true for you. So to create a new life, you must agree to a new story.

How do you create a new story? The BE/DO/HAVE Questions!

BE - Who are you?
DO - What are you here to do?
HAVE - What do you want to have?

You need to get absolutely clear on these three questions. From this place, you can see what your values are. If you are a person with a spiritual foundation – there are certain things that you simply will not tolerate; it is easier to weed out what does not fit your values. Certain things simply will not show up in your field any longer.

You will discover how much freedom you have when you get absolutely clear on who you are becoming, what you are here to do and what is it you truly desire.

Dust off your journals and STOP, TAKE A BREATH, and ASK the BE, DO, HAVE Questions today! create your new story and begin to live your best life.

Coach Carolyn

Don't let fear, doubt and worry keep you from creating the story of your dreams. Join the Transcending Fear Mentoring Program and get clear on your authentic self and let go of the fearful self.

"Other people's opinions of you do not have to become your reality." ~ Les Brown


Agreement #2: Don't Take Anything Personally

What other people say to you or say about you, is never about YOU; it is always about them. It is about their own stories and dramas. Unless you make it about you, then it isn't.

Stay out of the drama unless you're on stage! Like the queen says, "Save the drama for yo' mamma!"

'Nuff said.

Coach Carolyn

 
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